Her story when I picked her up was that she had forgotten she was booked in for a colour. So she was on the spot.

Anyway we waited and she said bye to the kids.

The problem is that she needs the money to buy the food and the clothes. And where does that come from. Me.

So unless I start doing her shopping for her and buying the kids clothes directly, I have to give her the money for this. I can not say tough do with out.

I suppose the only way forward is to ask for reciepts for everything, and I do not have the time or energy to go down that path.

"...SO I transfer some more to her account..." WHY???
She is only nice to you when she wants/needs something. That's pretty low of her actually, to use you like this. Any decent caring human being with any kind of compassion would never stoop so low as to use someone for their own purposes again and again and again. What she did to you is awful. Sadly, she is so self centered that she only thinks about herself and doesn't ever think about anyone else, except maybe her boyfriend of the week. Someday she will probably look back and feel bad about what she has done and how she has treated you up to now, but right now, she is being heartless and probably doesn't care.
We could all sit here and pass judgement on her but seriously, why??? do you continue to allow her to use you like this??? Take a piece of paper and write the following word on it ---> CLOSED <--- and fold the paper up. Now put this same piece of paper in your wallet. The next time she asks for money... smile, open your wallet and while she's getting all excited and saying to herself 'he's such a sucker', hand her the piece of paper, smile and walk away. Like it has already been stated, your obligation is to your kids not her. Your kids need clothes, buy them clothes. Kids are hungry, feed them. ETC. EX needs her hair done, hand her a pair of scissors!!! :o)

hi Mark, I agree with Cinderella on this one....have a great time with the kids, you all deserve it. xx

I am shocked that she not said bye to the kids.
You are too good. You have a good heart. Take care. Maybe she uses you only. I am sure, you will do the right. More than all be there for your kids. They will feel your love. Have a nice time!
Karin

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Taking the piss over money? Taking the piss full stop methinks... do either of you grasp the concept of divorce? (sorry if that sounds harsh!)

Are you really surprised? Surely nothing she does shocks you now!!!

I think you're being bent over, and rogered up a treat....

But that's just me.