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    October 23

    Take the blame

    Well the Ex Rang, saying she had forgotten her hair appointment. Could I ring and say she was not well, and appologise that I should have rung earlier but forgot. Well sorted that for her.

    Well it seems that Prat is fading fast. She says he is a lier and can not be trusted, he apparently says she is neurotic and lacks trust.

    It seems she is mailing more stuff back to him, and said, she knows that this weekend will be hard, as i am away so she will not get her normal break from the kids, but she is happy as she knows he is not visiting and she is not seeing him. I suggested that would seem to indicate that this is not a good relationship.

    Toerag is being spoken of as now being much more normal and rational. May be his star is once more in the asendent.

    Saying she not slept well, had nightmares last night, dreamt that there was a child in her bed who then disapeared. It would seem that Prat has messed with her head, saying she'll never get anyone, she should stick with casual relationships.
    Another factor about prat was that he admitted making up references for himself, offered to make some up for her to help in her job search, she declined.

    Last night she says she lost the plot with the kids. They having, well the youngest in fact having, messed up the quiet room.

    Daughter ended up helping tidy it all up before they disapeared to their rooms.

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    Gail, often easy to find things to distract you from doing college work. Glad to hear you are staying focused
    Oct. 23
    I am sure Sunday Afternoon will be good.
    Oct. 23
    Keep it up Mark....(the different attitude that is). Hope you have a great weekend with the kids...well, Sunday afternoon!
    Oct. 23
    freckles .wrote:
    i am doing fine thank you very much mark !! i have been racking my brain .. lol well actually last night i couldnt work out how to get photos on to a sd card for my mum's xmas pressi ( a digital photo frame) and to be able to back up all of them onto a sd/hc card ( as my laptop is fading i think) i thought i could just drag them acorss- ended up getting a card reader and hey presto !! done the easy one but will deffo have to have a good go on an assignment before i do my other !! ( got gender/culture and one on community so i better pull my socks up !!) have a good weekend mark ~x~
    Oct. 23
    Karin, they have been there for me, when i needed them, it is nice to know that they'll be there to kick me back on track, next time I look like I'm going off the rails
    Oct. 23
    CINDERELLAwrote:
    You are strong, Mark. I am proud of you, too. And you can be proud of yourself. Your life will be better with each day. You will see. And you will be stronger.
    One day, you will look back and see, you have learned a lot from all these situations and all will be better in your life. Your kids believe in you, too. I am sure. Stay as you are and believe in yourself. Friends are always there for you and help you if you need them.
    Karin x
    Oct. 23
    Thanks Gail. Had to develop one, otherwise I was going to destroy myself.

    How is Uni going?
    Oct. 23
    freckles .wrote:
    am glad you have a different attitude now - am proud of you !!
    Oct. 23
    Yes it is Mark.
    Thanks for that. I have been trying to start building a life with out the Ex, not something I ever wanted to do. But that is now what it is. But she keeps trying to involve me in what she is up to. Then dipping in to my activities with the kids when, when it suits her, I find it hard to say no, because I fear it will upset the kids
    Oct. 23
    Is it Mark? (Lost in France) I have been there it does no good to hang on the EX just for the childrens sake. It took me may of years to figure this out. I remarried 3x before finding the one that I have, I let the EX be to much of my life with the other two. You must break away and start a new life for yourself and the children. If she has them, they will come back to you, I know this to be true. My sons and I are great friends now. This all started back in 1976. Best of luck to you. "An old man told you this" just remember this phrase.
    Oct. 23
    Hope Tanwrote:
    Mark , I think you are right. You still help your ex as it is also helping your kids. However, what inside is different. I read what you wrote the same last year.

    Fourteen years is not a short time to write every details in your life. It takes time to make the wound heal. Enjoy your day.
    Oct. 23
    Sharon
    Blunt is great.
    Yes I am still too involved. But I do feel my attitude to it is different. So much more sitting on the outside looking in.
    As for my own life. Wish I had the time, that is not dependent on my involvement or not in her business.
    Oct. 23
    I wouldn't call cancelling her app's for her 'less involved' sorry, that's just pathetic. (blunt as per usual, apologies..) You say your attitude is different but it seems it's not just me that's seeing the same thing... Well, whatever, seems you are nowhere nearer to getting a life of your own eh. Too involved in your exes still.
    Oct. 23
    Yes, but the difference is my attitude to it all.

    I watch on more like someone watching a TV soap opera.

    Less involved now. I do hope she finds what she is looking for in life, we all want to be content with where we are at and what we are doing. I want her to find this.
    Oct. 23
    freckles .wrote:
    huh ? ground hog day ?
    Oct. 23

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